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Online Dating Success When Looking For The Perfect Date

By Jason Reed

Online dating success may lead to a physical date. At least this is the promise, as you go online and hope to take out a nice lady for a date, where you can spend quality time together.

When you first go online, you may not know who you are chatting to, is it a woman or a man, is that picture of her now, or is it a picture taken years ago? Am I chatting to a 12 year old pretending to be a 25 year old sexy blond? It can be a real letdown, if you are misled prior to a date.

Clarify Matters With A Physical Date

If you meet the girl on a physical date, you know and see everything is perfect, then you may have the woman you have been looking for, all these years. If she does not show up, you wonder if there is a reason, what has she got to hide?

This is the reason people take up online dating, to find out and review their options as much as possible, before meeting on a physical date.

Online Dating Is Popular

People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water, because it works or, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man after she has been chatting with online.

All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what’s a nice guy to do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you.

Online Flirting Is Mutual Fun

You must be patient. Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.

Post Your Picture

A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head.

Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her.

After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.

Let Her Feel Safe And Secure

If she asks to bring a friend along, then do not feel intimidated. If it makes her feel safe, then accept the situation. Hope you will just the two of you on the next date.

If she asks to meet in an place where there are lots of people, you should accept again. You just want to meet her and see if she is appealing to you physically, as she appeals to you when you are chatting online.

Knowing as much information as possible about each other can make you both feel reassured, and most of this information can easily be found by successful online dating.

About the Author:
Jason Reed is a popular author of dating articles including Nice Guys, Anniversary Gift Ideas, Anniversary Presents, Anniversary Wishes, Friendship Rings, Successful Online Dating, Search For People.
Keep a lookout as more articles are added from this author on this website in the near future.

More Dating Facts....

Are there any dangers with using an internet dating site?
There are benefits to using internet dating sites but a sad fact is that there are also great dangers. There are some individuals who use dating sites as nothing more then preying grounds for unsuspecting people. Predators surround us daily but the horrors of the World Wide Web seem to grab our attention more than others.

There are countless horror stories within the dating world of married men or women trolling personal ads to have affairs on their spouses. There are psychologically deranged individuals searching for victims. In reality this is true of dating off the internet as well.

You just have more opportunities to run across people such as these when you are connected online. The best advice is to use common sense and have a little bit of prudence. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is.


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