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Mr Perfect Online Dating Secret Friends Guide

Mr Perfect May Be An Illusion

By Fanny Gordon

Mr Perfect is riding over the hills, on the way to your castle to rescue you from the fiery dragon. This may be a fairy tale, but if you keep looking for the perfect man, you may not spend many happy Saturday nights as you cannot find the man of your dreams.

To find the man to meet your needs, you may be ready to compromise. Everyone has faults, but there are aspects of some people you may find appealing and override any negative aspects. It may be physical appearance, intellectual conversations or you both have similar needs.

If you are ready to compromise, the next man you meet may be the most interesting, but he may not be perfect.

Mr Close Enough To Perfect

The sooner you realize this sad but true fact, the sooner you can get on with finding Mr. Close-Enough-To-Perfect. Prince Charming, riding on a white stallion, lost his way or found Princess Charming and got married on his way to your castle. Get over it and get on with it.

You are going to have to actively seek the man of your dreams and you won’t find him hiding under your bed. You already know that he isn’t among the men that you are acquainted with so, now what? Online dating is “what”.

Online Dating For Singles

It’s true that online dating, while in its infancy, was only made up of perverts, sexual predators, nerds and weirdoes but that is no longer true. It has become the main tool of the single person in every developed country in the world. Forty million people can’t all be wrong.

Ask your girl friends if they have ever used online dating or are using it now. If they are honest with you, most of them have or are now members of at least one online dating site and maybe more than one.

Meet Eligible Men Online

It really is the way to go to meet eligible men who want to meet you. It doesn’t matter what any of your numbers are…like age, height, weight or income either. Somewhere out there in the big wide world there is a man who will like you…..then love you….and think that you are beautiful and desirable. “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” is true.

What is considered beautiful in one part of the world is completely different from what is considered beautiful in another part of the world. It’s even different from one part of this country to another.

Visit Dating Sites

Find an online dating site that fits your needs. Write a great profile and post a flattering picture. Start contacting eligible men on the site. Mr. Close-enough-to-perfect could be a few mouse clicks away.

Once you get a few contacts from prospective dates, then you decide if you wish to take the next step and exchange email, chat online on a dating site, talk on the phone. This is the time where you can find as much information from a dating prospect, to confirm you have compatible needs. Once you are happy with all you know about your dating prospect, then you may take the next step with a physical date.

The first physical date should be at an open space, where there are a lot of people. You may even bring a close friend, just to be on the safe side. If he turns to be Mr Perfect on the first date, then you may have found your man, and you may go out on more dates.

There may be aspects of him you may not like, but there may be other aspects you find very appealing, so you may need to compromise when looking for Mr Perfect.

About the Author:
Fanny Gordon is an author of dating articles including Online Dating For Women, Finding Mr Right.
Keep a lookout as more articles are added from this author on this website in the near future.

More Dating Facts....

Being single or new to the dating scene is hard. How do I begin?
Congratulations on taking your first step by deciding that you are ready to get into the game of dating. Many people become apprehensive if they have recently ended a relationship, due to whatever circumstances, and are often unsure of where to begin. In this day and age of unlimited communication ability, the whole dating scene can be confusing. The etiquette and customs have evolved over the last century.

Another huge mistake is thinking you can change your partner. It is true that over time our personality changes as does our hobbies, preferences and even political or religious viewpoints.

But many people begin dating someone, discovering a flaw in their personality, mentality or physical body, and think they can change them to fit what they are looking for. If you are with someone, you accept them for what or who they are rather than what you want them to be.

 

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