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First Date Ideas For Teens

By Fanny Gordon

First date ideas may include spending intimate moments together, where you can find out a lot about each other. You may want to find out if you are right for each other. You may go the same school, work in the same job, or meet often at the local youth center. The more time you can spend together, the more you will know about each other.

You may find you need to spend time away from interruptions, so you can watch a movie and then go to the coffee house. This is the time when you can ask your date about likes and dislikes, career choices and her outlook on life. You may even discuss your mutual friends, but then you may look to avoid malicious gossip as your date may feel upset about your comments.

On your first date, you want everything to go smoothly, to see if you want to go out on more dates. If it is a dream date and everything goes well, then you may mutually agree to see each other again. If it is not a pleasant date, then you may need to find another date by visiting dating sites and browsing for dating prospects. There are many dating sites covering a wide range of ages, from the senior people, to the middle aged and teens.

Many of these sites, offer chat facilities and even live webcam, to see and hear your date online, including teen web cam and teen chat.

Teen Dating Can Be Awkward

When teens start dating, it can be awkward. You may secretly feel uncomfortable, about what to wear, what to talk about, how to handle yourself and what to do if your date turns out to be a drag. This is all normal, especially when it’s your first date with this person. It’s always a good idea to give some first date ideas some thought.

Going to the movies is probably the first date idea that comes to mind. What else? Here we’ve got seven alternatives to the movies. Each of these is designed to reduce those awkward moments with no conversation ongoing, allowing your surroundings and other people to provide topics of mutual interest, as well as relieving any discomfort or boredom you might experience if your date turns out to be a dud.

Go To A Crowded Place For Your First Date

If you don’t know your date very well, one of the best first date ideas is to go to the local coffee hangout. These places are typically crowded, with a plentiful supply of kids your own age.

It’s an inexpensive date as well. Grab a latte or a smoothie and a pastry and you’re all set. It’s easy for both of you to relax in this noisy, lively atmosphere. This date can be as short or long as you like. You get a chance to know one another, with a minimum of self consciousness.

Spectator Sports Can Be Lively

If you both enjoy spectator sports, this can also make a great first date. While you can talk up a storm, it’s not necessary – there’s always the game to watch! Again, with lots of other people around, the atmosphere is lively and you’re both much less likely to experience awkwardness.

Activities like skateboarding, roller blading, bowling and ice skating are inexpensive and fun. If neither of you has much expertise, it makes it all the more fun. In fact, if one of you is a champ and your date has no experience at, say, bowling, you can take one of two tacts: don’t be a show-off and instead, patiently teach your date the ropes, or don’t choose this first date idea at all. If you feel your date would end up flustered and feeling dumb, this isn’t the one.

Spending Intimate Moments Walking Together At The Beach

A walk at the beach or in the park can be romantic. In both cases, there’s plenty to see to spark conversation. Inspecting the creatures in tide pools, or admiring the plant life in the park invites strolling hand in hand, or not, as you wish.

Who doesn’t love a picnic? Scope out a local nature walk beforehand, bring your picnic and have your lunch in some scenic spot. Take bikes instead of driving. This is an especially good first date idea when you already know each other fairly well, as there won’t be awkward silences.

Little Theatre Performance

Get tickets to a Little Theatre performance. Perhaps your date has never been to a theatre performance. Be the first to impress your date with something out of the ordinary! Go to a coffee house afterwards and chat it up.

Almost every teen loves to dance, so go to one of the teen center community dances for an almost failsafe first date idea. It’s hard to worry about conversation gaps, or to feel self conscious. It’s noisy and a guaranteed icebreaker. Dance your heart out.

An Intimate Dinner Together

Another first date idea, is to spend a couple of hours together. If you are good cook, may be you can have an intimate dinner at your house, at a time when the house is empty. If there are other people living in the same house with you, ask them to stay away for a couple of hours, so that you will not be disturbed. If you live with your parents, you may look at a date when your parents are away for the weekend. At is your first date, you do not want her to meet your parents, so soon.

Your first date, is a time when you get to know more about each other and are not disturbed by other people. You can be in a coffee house, or walking down the beach together and these are intimate moments where you can find out a lot about each other. You may find out that you both love the same music, so you want to see a band that is about to stage a live show. You can buy the tickets and surprise her by spending the next date at a live show.

If you find you have many similar likes, the better you will feel about each other, especially when you are looking for first date ideas.

About the Author:
Fanny Gordon is an author of dating articles including Online Dating For Women, Finding Mr Right.
Keep a lookout as more articles are added from this author on this website in the near future.

More Dating Facts....

How do I even know what I should be looking for in a long term relationship?
Stop right there. The whole point of dating is to discover what you like and dislike in other people. It can even help you gain a greater understanding of yourself. Many people make the mistake of rushing through dating only to find them married to a partner that does not suit them.

Another huge mistake is thinking you can change your partner. It is true that over time our personality changes as does our hobbies, preferences and even political or religious viewpoints.

But many people begin dating someone, discovering a flaw in their personality, mentality or physical body, and think they can change them to fit what they are looking for. If you are with someone, you accept them for what or who they are rather than what you want them to be.

 

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