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Online Dating Mistakes and How to Avoid Them

By John D Strinetz

Online dating mistakes to avoid include lying, misleading and fakery. The more true you are to your prospective date the more trust is built into your potential relationship.

For example, if you are bald and wearing a wig and you tell her its your natural hair, then she might not trust you from that moment and things may go downhill. Be honest and say you wanted to look good for her and she will appreciate your effort.

If things don’t work out, you learn from your mistakes and be honest and true to the next lady you find on the internet.

While you search on a dating website for that special lady, you can do a lot of things right.

Sadly, you can, also, do a lot of things wrong that will guarantee failure and a broken heart. Out in the “real” world, being aggressive, demanding perfection and even little white lies are all ingredients for success.


However, those same qualities are killers when you are dating online and off line, too, for that matter.

There is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and being too aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy from a woman’s point of view.

Slow and steady

If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive maybe even, scary. Try to remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience is the key.

Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or another and that includes you, as well.

If you expect the woman to be absolutely perfect and demand that, you will always be disappointed.

Do not expect perfection

Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing. Demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or a lady you are interested in is not just fine. It won’t happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them. Decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.

Do not mislead

Little white lies and false fronts won’t work. Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Write your profile and place it on a dating website. Make it interesting but don’t make false statements. The truth will come out eventually anyway.

If you say you are a lawyer who makes a million bucks a year and you are really an electrician that makes $75,000, you have set yourself up for failure.

Remember don’t be too aggressive, expect to ever find perfection or put on a false front.

Your patience and honesty will be rewarded, with a long lasting relationship.

Maybe even a life time partner.

About the Author: John D Strinetz is a popular author of dating articles including Catholic Single Dating, How to Meet People, Online Dating Service, Online Flirting, Dating Website, Dating Profiles.
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