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Perfect Woman Is The Real Total Woman

By Julia Styles

Perfect woman is a woman who looks after herself, is attentive and responsive to her partner and people around her. She is a woman who says I am a total woman. She is happy with her body and her attitudes, but she always takes into consideration what you say.

She is not the woman who only takes care of herself and ignores everyone else. She has empathy. She has real friends, and one or two soul mates to talk over things when social pressures get real tough.

A perfect woman is a total woman. She is a housewife, a girlfriend, a mother. She is young, middle-aged, old. Everything about her adds to a total woman.

A Perfect Woman

When I Googled the term perfect woman, I was sad to see that all of the advertisements were for breast enhancement. Though I realize women put a lot of their identity into their breast size, I wish that this was not the case.

Though it is important to feel feminine, if you put too much emphasis on the size your breasts, you aren’t putting much into the rest of you.

When it comes down to it, what your body looks like has something to do with your identity, but what is inside is even more important. Men may initially be attracted to you, but that won’t last if they find out you are an empty shell.

Perfect Body

There is no such thing as a perfect woman anyway. What makes women so wonderful is that they are all uniquely different. We see images of women all over the place, and many of these women have what might be considered the perfect body.

However, these women are not real. Even the women in the pictures don’t look like that. This type of perfect woman is enhanced by a computer program. Perhaps even the woman in the photograph might not recognize herself once they are done playing with the image.

Perfectly Flawed

The perfect woman is perfectly flawed. Your breast size is only as important as you make it. Even though breast size is never something I had to worry about, I can’t imagine that it would ever be something that would dominate my daily thoughts.

I can understand having a small breast might be something a woman worries about, and I have no problem with a woman wanting to feel more feminine and going up a size or two. However, you should know that getting larger breasts will not make you a perfect woman.

If you can work on the inside and the outside at the same time, you may find that you become the ideal woman for you. And that is what is most important.

If you are on the quest to become a perfect woman, stop and think why. I know that I am not perfect, and I know that I am very far from the ideal. However, I know that my husband and those who love me would not have me any other way.

Not The Size Of Your Breasts

In the end it is not the size of your breasts, or the number on a scale that will make people remember you. If you want to be the perfect woman, you are just letting yourself be set up for disappointment.

Those who remember you the most fondly will remember you for kind words, smiles, and possibly your sense of humor. Take it from somebody who knows, big breasts are not all they are cut out to be.

Women With Big Breasts

Besides, talking to women with natural big breasts, they are all talking about breast reduction, because of the strain on the neck and back, not for beauty reasons. They want to escape the ongoing pain of carrying all the weight of natural large breasts.

There are a few women I know who had breast enlargements, have had problems and have gone back to normal size. The breasts were looking unnatural and the extra weight was becoming a strain on their neck and back too.

The way the body is naturally balanced with the natural construction you do not need useless breast enhancement, adding extra weight to the body. It always leads to unnatural looking breasts.

If you are trying to attract a man and think big breasts are the answer, maybe you are trying to attract the wrong man. You should look at yourself as a whole woman and your attitudes, rather than just one part of yourself. Besides, most men do not look at just breasts, they look to you as a total woman.

A total woman makes a perfect woman.

About the Author: Julia Styles is a popular author of dating articles including Adult Dating Online, Dating for Single Parents, How to Make Friends, Matchmaking Services, Online Dating, Valentines Day, Healthy Relationship, Dear John.
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