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Difficult People And Online Harassment

By Janine Jensenoris

Difficult people are in every society. They may have a chip on their shoulder, woken up on the wrong side of the bed or just like being difficult to everyone in their life.

You just hope through your life you do not meet too many of them. When you do, depending on the circumstance, you can either defend yourself or just move on and ignore them. No response, is quite often the best form of defense.

Online Harassment

You may be meeting people online in a chat room and one of them is chatting to you and is stressing you out. You can either ignore the chat, or just log off and come back later and hope he has given up and gone.

There may be times the only way you can deal with difficult people online is to take action. If you are in a chat room, you can inform the moderator of the chat room about the person who is harassing you and that person may be booted out of the room.

Some People Are Just Out Of Control

No matter where you go, who you meet, or what the situation may be, you can always be sure you’re going to run into difficult people. What you consider difficult may be different from what everybody else does, but it is no secret that there are some people who are just out of control.

This has never been more apparent to me since I started talking to people online. There are times when I think I am going to lose my mind because of the way some of the people act when they think they are hiding behind a computer screen.

Insist They Are Always Right

The most difficult people are the ones who insist that they are always right. There’s nothing you can say, nothing you can do to convince them that perhaps they may not be right all of the time.

When you run into this type, you are probably better off moving along rather than wasting your breath. Sadly, these difficult people are also in my family. The only benefit from this I can see is that I already have some practice in dealing with them. That doesn’t mean, however, I enjoy it.

Stubborn And Delusional

Other difficult people are the ones who are not only stubborn, but they are also delusional. If you have never met any of these people, you have probably not spent any time on a message board or in an Internet chat room.

I have found that many of these difficult people only become more difficult if you try to reason with them. I’m not just talking about those who are stubborn, I am talking about those who are just plain making stuff up.

Cut Your Losses And Move On

When someone says music from the other side of the world has woken them in the night as if by some mystical connection, you can review your options and then just cut your losses and move on.

How you deal with difficult people will greatly affect your level of stress. If you just let them go and move along with what you wanted to do, you will be far less stressed, and you will have a more peaceful time online.

May Not Be Worth The Hassle

Though you may think it’s not fair for the difficult people to chase you from a message board or a chat room, you have to wonder if it’s really worth it. Unless you are on a site that you use on a daily basis, it might not be worth the hassle.

However, if you’re on one of your favorite sites perhaps you just have to be difficult yourself.

This does not mean you have to be difficult so that you can stress out other people online. But you can defend yourself and let people know you are not happy with their attitude and if they do not change, then you will have to take action.

Options In A Chat Room

If you are in a chat room and you face difficult people and they are the same people who are giving you trouble, you could either change your nik or go to another chat room and start new friendships. The people in the new chat room may be the nicest people ever.

I have found this to be a perfect solution, whenever I was being harassed online by difficult people.

About the Author:
Janine Jensenoris is a popular author of dating articles including Adult Personals, Blind Dating, Chat Websites, Real Friends, Adult Party Favors, Conversation Starters, Abusive Relationships, Social Skills Lessons, Marriage Crisis, Anger Management, Mother Daughter Relationships, Interracial Relationships.
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